Sunday, February 21, 2010 marked the 15th year anniversary of my mother's passing. Every year on this date my father, sister, and I get together for lunch to reminisce about what a wonderful mother she was. If my sister or I happen to have a babe in arms, then of course they come along, otherwise it's just the three of us. Mia of course came, and we went with my dad to church first. Then we headed to Battle Creek to Clara's on the River to meet Elizabeth for lunch. It's hard to believe it's been 15 years already. I have never gotten over her death, nor do I think I ever will, but I have learned to go on and find joy in my life. A hard realization came upon me when I became aware that I have lived more of my life without a mother than with. No child should ever have to go through that. It's funny how age and motherhood changes one's perspective on life. My biggest fears in life used to be sharks, sharp objects, or financial issues. Now it's leaving my children without a mother. At least I always know my mother is in my heart and looking down after me. It's also nice to see flashes of her in my beautiful girls.
Mia, Dad, and I at the church altar with 15 roses to represent the 15 years we've spent without her.
I just loved Mia in this adorable dress.
Olivia was a little bummed she couldn't go with us, but daddy and her had a fun day together renting movies and playing games.
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I can't imagine and it is one of my biggest fears as well, now that I have children. I'm sure your Mom is extremely proud of you and your beautiful family! I think it's wonderful you get together and celebrate her life every year!
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